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## Discipline <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" --> ## Discipline <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#000" --> <!-- .slide: data-background-color="#033" -->
--- -V-
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<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#033" --> <!-- .slide: data-background-color="#033" -->
When your rationality wants one thing When your rationality wants one thing
but your emotions do something else. but your emotions do something else.
--- ---
<!-- .slide: data-background="slides/elephant_rider.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.4" --> <!-- .slide: data-background="slides/elephant_rider.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.8" -->
### Elephant Rider ### Elephant Rider
-V-
<!-- .slide: data-background="slides/elephant_rider.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.3" -->
<div> <div>
- metaphor describing our internal interactions - metaphor describing our internal interactions
- elephant = emotional side - elephant = emotional side
- rider = rational side - rider = rational side
</div> <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> </div>
-V- -V-
<!-- .slide: data-background="slides/elephant_rider.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.2" --> <!-- .slide: data-background="slides/elephant_rider.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.2" -->
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without being thrown into a ditch. without being thrown into a ditch.
--- ---
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" data-background="slides/habit_tracker.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.5" -->
### TOOL: Habit tracker <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
### TOOL: Habit tracker -V-
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---
Define positive habits Define positive habits
and track them daily. and track them daily.
--- -V-
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| Habit | Workout | Alcohol | Coding | | Habit | Workout | Alcohol | Coding |
| ------|---------|---------|------- | | ------|---------|---------|------- |
| Target| > 10 min| < 0,5 l |> 30 min| | Target| > 10 min| < 0,5 l |> 30 min|
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| 4. | 🟢 13 | 🟢 0,2 | 🟢 35 | | 4. | 🟢 13 | 🟢 0,2 | 🟢 35 |
| 5. | 🟢 12 | 🟢 0 | 🟢 45 | | 5. | 🟢 12 | 🟢 0 | 🟢 45 |
--- -V-
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### My Habits ### My Habits
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- at least 1 hour daily<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> - at least 1 hour daily<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
- right after the gym<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> - right after the gym<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
-V-
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#### Gym sessions tracker <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
-V-
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#### One page per week <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
-V-
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#### 100 weeks in a row <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
--- ---
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### TOOL: ToDo Today <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
### TOOL: ToDo Today -V-
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--- #### What is it?
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" data-background="slides/todo_today.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.1" -->
#### What?
- list of prioritized, time-boxed tasks - list of prioritized, time-boxed tasks
- prepared the previous day - prepared the previous day
--- -V-
#### Why? #### Why does it work?
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- avoids decision paralysis - avoids decision paralysis
- trimmed down daily list is manageable - trimmed down daily list is manageable
- big tasks split into small ones - big tasks split into small ones
- the elephant doesn't get scared - the elephant doesn't get scared
--- -V-
##### Important task first ##### Important task first
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- something you *want* or *need* to complete - something you *want* or *need* to complete
- consistent daily progress - consistent daily progress
--- -V-
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#### My ToDo tracker
Collection of markdown text files<br/>that are easy to edit (Joplin).
### TOOL: Daily Heroism ```markdown
[Philip Zimbardo] # 2025-04-16
- done task A
- 🚧 🚧 WIP 🚧 🚧
- pending task B
# TOMORROW
- some task C
# LATER
- other task D
```
-V-
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#### My ToDo tracker (2)
```markdown
# 2025-04-16
- done task A
- done task B
- 🚧 🚧 WIP 🚧 🚧
# TOMORROW
- some task C
# LATER
- other task D
```
During the day:
🚧 🚧 WIP 🚧 🚧 line moves,<br/>
showing what is done<br/>
and what comes next.
-V-
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#### My ToDo tracker (3)
```markdown
# 2025-04-17
- 🚧 🚧 WIP 🚧 🚧
- some task C
- other task D
# TOMORROW
# LATER
- yet another task E
```
At the end of the day:
1. TODAY entries move to an archive
2. TOMORROW is formed, becomes TODAY
3. Job well done!
--- ---
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### TOOL: Daily Heroism <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
[Philip Zimbardo] <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
-V-
Take a small step out of your comfort zone. Take a small step out of your comfort zone.
Daily. Daily.
--- -V-
#### Why? #### Why?
- grows your ability to **act** and step out of the crowd - grows your ability to **act**, step out of the crowd
- aids in fulfilling your vision and maintaining discipline - supports fulfilling your vision and maintaining discipline
--- It makes the elephant jump before it realizes<br/> the hole is too deep for comfort.
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-V-
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### My Heroisms ### My Heroism
- smalltalk Game of smalltalk
- do it before you rationalize
- chat up random people
- do it before you rationalize and back out

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## Motivation <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" --> ## Motivation <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
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--- ---
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Why do we do the things we do? Why do we do the things we do?
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<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> <!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
--- ---
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" data-background-image="slides/personal_vision.jpg" data-background-opacity="0.2" --> <!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" data-background-image="slides/personal_vision.jpg" data-background-opacity="0.3" -->
### TOOL: Personal Vision ### TOOL: Personal Vision
<!-- .element: class="text-over-image" --> <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
--- -V-
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What is the direction of your journey?
#### How to get one? What gets out of bed in the morning?
-V-
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#### How to build a Personal Vision?
1. SWOT analysis 1. SWOT analysis
2. Achievements 2. Achievements
3. Analyzing motivating activities 3. Analyzing motivating activities

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## Objectivity <!-- .slide: data-background="slides/objectivity.jpg" data-background-size="contain" -->
## Objectivity <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
--- <!-- .slide: data-background-color="#033" -->
-V-
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Aligning our assumptions with reality. Aligning our assumptions with reality.
--- ---
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is complex and ever-changing. is complex and ever-changing.
### Mental model ### Mental model <!-- .element: class="fragment" data-fragment-index="2" -->
is our understanding of the world and its rules. is our understanding of the world and its rules. <!-- .element: class="fragment" data-fragment-index="2" -->
--- -V-
Mental models have varying levels of *objectivity*, Mental models have varying levels of *objectivity*,
i.e. how much they correspond to reality. i.e. how much they correspond to reality.
---
--- ---
### Dunning-Kruger effect ### Dunning-Kruger effect
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overestimate their abilities. overestimate their abilities.
--- -V-
Those who don't know Those who don't know
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--- ---
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### My Assessment ### My Progress
...

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## Outcomes <!-- .slide: data-background="slides/outcomes.jpg" data-background-size="contain" -->
## Outcomes <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
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--- -V-
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Daily meaningful activities Daily meaningful activities
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gets you into flow. gets you into flow.
--- -V-
Flow frequently brings **outcomes**: Flow frequently brings **outcomes**:
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Outcomes keep us going. Outcomes keep us going.
--- -V-
### But sometimes... ### But sometimes...
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and lose our flow. and lose our flow.
--- -V-
Negativity captures our attention Negativity captures our attention
more than positivity. more than positivity.
--- -V-
#### So we stay down #### So we stay down
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Negativity and pessimism reinforce themselves.<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> Negativity and pessimism reinforce themselves.<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
--- -V-
We need **emotional stability** to keep us going. We need **emotional stability** to keep us going.
---
### Negativity hinders progress
--- ---
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#### Hamster in a box <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" --> ### Hamster in a box <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
<p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>
-V- -V-
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#### Hamster in a box ### Hamster in a box
- when put in a box with a lid, it will try to jump out - when put in a box with a lid, it will try to jump out
- and after a day or two it will give up and never try again<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> - and after a day or two it will give up and never try again<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
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-V- -V-
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--- -V-
#### Learned helplessness ### Learned helplessness
[Martin Seligman] <!-- .element: class="reference-author" --> [Martin Seligman] <!-- .element: class="reference-author" -->
-V- -V-
#### Baby Elephant Syndrome #### Baby Elephant Syndrome
... <!-- .slide: data-background="slides/baby_elephant.jpg" data-background-opacity="0.6" -->
--- ---
#### Hamster Procrastination Cycle ### Hamster Procrastination Cycle
1. Do nothing 1. Do nothing
2. Have regrets 2. Have regrets
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- present - present
- future - future
--- -V-
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Focusing on Focusing on
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results in a hamster, depressions. <!-- .element: class="fragment " --> results in a hamster, depressions. <!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
--- -V-
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Refocusing on Refocusing on
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[Viktor Frankl] <!-- .element: class="reference-author" --> [Viktor Frankl] <!-- .element: class="reference-author" -->
--- -V-
We choose **how we interpret** our past. We choose **how we interpret** our past.
--- ---
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### TOOL: Choice of attitude <!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" -->
### TOOL: Choice of attitude <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
<small>(originally named *Inner-game*; not related to Timothy Gallwey's work)</small> <small>(originally named *Inner-game*; not related to Timothy Gallwey's work)</small>
--- -V-
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Interpreting seemingly *negative events* Interpreting seemingly *negative events*
as **neutral** or even **positive**. as **neutral** or even **positive**.
--- -V-
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Event → 😟/😐/😀 Event → 😟/😐/😀
<div class="flex-container"> <div class="flex-container">
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Micro-habit that can be trained. <!-- .element: class="fragment " --> Micro-habit that can be trained. <!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
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### My switched attitudes
### TOOL: Three Good Things 1. Calming down my expectation of perfect social interactions <!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
- "This went well, we both enjoyed the chat." <!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
2. Burying past failures <!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
- "At least I learned to do something new!" <!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
---
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### TOOL: Three Good Things <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
[Martin Seligman] <!-- .element: class="reference-author" --> [Martin Seligman] <!-- .element: class="reference-author" -->
(Learned Optimism)
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At the end of every day, At the end of every day,
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that went well for you. that went well for you.
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#### Why? #### Why?
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Strengthens your focus on positive past. Strengthens your focus on positive past.
--- -V-
#### Learned optimism
[Martin Seligman] <!-- .element: class="reference-author" -->
---
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### My Journey ### My Good Things?
... Done daily during dinner as a family.
1. chatted with my coworkers over coffee
2. resolved one bug
3. finally gave my talk on procrastination

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