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## Discipline <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
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When your rationality wants one thing
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but your emotions do something else.
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### Elephant Rider
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<div>
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- metaphor describing our internal interactions
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- elephant = emotional side
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- rider = rational side
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</div>
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The **rider** is tiny but intelligent,<br />holding the reigns and choosing the right path.
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The **elephant** is huge but simple,<br />with a mind of its own.
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Most of the time, the elephant let's the rider lead the way.
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But at 6 tons it won't be bossed around! <!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
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If the rider is indecisive or tired,<br />the elephant will do as it likes.
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If the elephant gets scared,<br />it will not obey the rider.
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### Ego depletion
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#### Rider is tired
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- making decisions (big or small) is tiring
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- we have limited operational capacity
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- once depleted, the emotional side takes over
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- can be replenished when done in advance:
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- take breaks,
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- do simple manual activities,
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- improve your mood
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### Emotional aversion
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#### Elephant is scared
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- some activities appear daunting right away:
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- demanding lots of effort
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- ambiguous; many unknowns
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- uncomfortable
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- builds an emotional barrier,<br/>causing an emotional aversion
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- lowering the barrier makes an activity approachable
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### Growing the capacity
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It is possible to increase our operational capacity
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- by building positive habits
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- by lowering the emotional aversion
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The **rider** must plan around the **elephant's** needs
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to make good progress on their journey
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without the rider being thrown off into a ditch.
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### My thoughts
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- useful mental model
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- explains why my rationality doesn't always win<br>and that it is normal
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- enables to account for it and work with it
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### TOOL: Habit tracker <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
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Define positive habits
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and track them daily.
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#### Why?
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- keeping our elephant in line:<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
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- easier on our operational capacity: less need for making decisions; it is already decided
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- less forgetting or avoiding the activity
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- practice makes perfect, repetition brings efficiency<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
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- incremental changes take time, habits help us make the time<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
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#### How?
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| Habit | Workout | Alcohol | Coding |
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| ------|---------|---------|------- |
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| Target| > 10 min| < 0,5 l |> 30 min|
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| 1. | 🟢 20 | 🟢 0 | 🔴 15 |
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| 2. | 🔴 5 | 🔴 1 | 🔴 10 |
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| 3. | 🔴 0 | 🟢 0,2 | 🔴 25 |
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| 4. | 🟢 13 | 🟢 0,2 | 🟢 35 |
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| 5. | 🟢 12 | 🟢 0 | 🟢 45 |
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### My Habits
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1. Get up early<!-- .element: class="fragment" data-fragment-index="1" -->
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- before 4:45 daily<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
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- no exceptions<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
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2. Gym workout<!-- .element: class="fragment" data-fragment-index="2" -->
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- at least 10 minutes daily<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
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- right after waking up<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
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3. Personal Work session<!-- .element: class="fragment" data-fragment-index="3" -->
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- at least 1 hour daily<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
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- right after the gym<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
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#### My Tracking:
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### Gym sessions
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- A4 sheet per week, daily tracking<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
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- table of exercises + time and effort<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
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#### Book of workouts
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<img src="slides/habit_tracker_book.jpg" alt="Book" class="r-stretch">
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#### One page per week
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<img src="slides/habit_tracker_page.jpg" alt="Book" class="r-stretch">
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#### 100 weeks in a row<br/>(1.92 years) <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
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### My Observations
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- helped me to build a and keep a habit
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- kept me accountable for spending my time
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- lowering barriers for entry is key
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- predefined plan = less decision making
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- having a few sheets in stock = less disruptions
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### TOOL: ToDo Today <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
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#### What is it?
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- list of prioritized, time-boxed tasks
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- prepared the previous day
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- important task first
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- something you *want* or *need* to complete
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- provides consistent daily progress
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#### Why does it work?
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- avoids decision paralysis
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- trimmed down daily list is manageable
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- big tasks split into small ones
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- the elephant doesn't get scared
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#### My ToDo tracker
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Collection of markdown text files<br/>that are easy to edit (Joplin).
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#### My ToDo tracker (1)
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```markdown
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# 2025-04-16
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- 🚧 🚧 WIP 🚧 🚧
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- pending task A
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- pending task B
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# TOMORROW
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- some task C
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# LATER
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- other task D
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```
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#### My ToDo tracker (1)
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```markdown
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# 2025-04-16
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- done task A
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- 🚧 🚧 WIP 🚧 🚧
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- pending task B
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# TOMORROW
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- some task C
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# LATER
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- other task D
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```
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#### My ToDo tracker (1)
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```markdown
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# 2025-04-16
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- done task A
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- done task B
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- 🚧 🚧 WIP 🚧 🚧
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# TOMORROW
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- some task C
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# LATER
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- other task D
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```
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#### My ToDo tracker (2)
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```markdown
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# 2025-04-16
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- done task A
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- 🚧 🚧 WIP 🚧 🚧
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- pending task B
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# TOMORROW
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- some task C
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# LATER
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- other task D
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```
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During the day:
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🚧 🚧 WIP 🚧 🚧 line moves,<br/>
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showing what is done<br/>
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and what comes next.
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#### My ToDo tracker (3)
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```markdown
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# 2025-04-17
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- 🚧 🚧 WIP 🚧 🚧
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- some task C
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- other task D
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# TOMORROW
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# LATER
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- yet another task E
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```
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At the end of the day:
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1. TODAY entries move to an archive
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2. TOMORROW transforms into TODAY
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3. Job well done!
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#### My ToDo tracker feedback
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- helps to focus, less jumping around
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- "you are working on THIS" reminder
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- proper prioritization in a wider context
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- new tasks don't cut in line
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- helps with making & tracking progress |