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Motivation
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Why do we do the things we do?
External motivation
Carrot and stick; someone else sets our path.
- activity feels meaningless
- makes it easier to procrastinate
- long-term: numbs our self-motivation
Internal motivation
We have our own target and we follow it.
- progress feels more rewarding
- brings good mood
- engages creativity and learning
Goal-based motivation
We want to achieve something in the future.
Two phases:
- long displeasure from not reaching the goal
- short rush of joy from reaching the goal
- that quickly evaporates
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Pros:
It works!
Cons:
It causes us damage,
it is not sustainable
Joy fades, requiring more demanding goals.
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Hedonic treadmill 🔗
Humans quickly return to a relatively stable level of happiness despite major positive or negative events.
The reward for finishing a major goal
is not worth a long struggle to get there.
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My past goals
I'll build a cool website for generating artwork and sell the art and the code!
- I built the website!
- I enjoyed this part.
- I never went through with any selling.
- I didn't like this part.
Journey-based motivation
Joy is found in doing an activity, not finishing it.
- We enjoy the activity itself.
- "Happiness now", not just at the end.
- Unlocks a state of deep concentration known as flow.
- Practicing flow brings contentment and mastery,
- that in turn brings results.
Flow
State of deep immersion in an activity that...
- is challenging
- makes use of our strengths
- matches our skills
- is enjoyable.
We tend to lose our sense of time,
and it feels good.
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You know the feeling
of staying up late
trying to recompile the code just one last time
with the help of this random person's forum post
hoping the app will finally start working.
Right?
Personal vision
How we'd like to spend our limited time.
- activities we'd like to be doing
- milestones we'd like to pass
- journey-based internal motivation
Meaning
We like working on meaningful things:
- supporting the greater good,
- helping others,
- being part of something bigger,
- creating a lasting legacy.
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Group vision
Cooperation of individual visions.
- working together helps the group
- it also boosts one's own potential
The whole is greater than the sum of its parts.
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Meaning for me
I'm a fan of free and open source software:
- I use it daily:
- OS & apps
- fixes & features
- documentation, tips, help
- I contribute back:
- releasing code, fixes
- sponsoring useful projects and individuals
Everyone benefits.
TOOL: Personal Vision
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What is the direction of your journey?
What gets out of bed in the morning?
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How to build a Personal Vision?
- Personal SWOT analysis
- List your Achievements
- Analyze motivating activities
- Define a Beta-Vision
- Final Personal Vision
Step 1:
Personal SWOT
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WeaknessesO
OpportunitiesT
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Strengths
- skills, traits and qualities you have
- using them supports flow
- personal vision makes use of these as much as possible
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Weaknesses
- qualities you lack; limitations and negative traits
- using them retards flow
- personal vision avoids them if possible
These can be improved, but don't devote too much time to it.
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Opportunities
- possibilities today's world offers to you
- using them supports flow
- personal vision builds on them
Only a few will be used.
The rest needs to be rejected and banished:
- to gain focus, clarity and mastery,
- to avoid decision paralysis or regrets.
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Threats
- risks, possible negative impacts or scenarios
- take them into account
- recognize them and be prepared
- awareness helps with facing a potential fear
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My SWOT
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Strengths
- life-long programming experience
- perfectionist who loves creating nice and clean software
- persevering problem solver, especially with mysteries in tech
- open-minded and attentive listener
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Weaknesses
- introverted, social interactions are taxing
- cautious in opinions
I spent way too much time fighting my social skills.
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Opportunities
- switch jobs for...
- better fitting role (SW developer)
- higher pay
- different tech stack
- getting back to distributed systems
- contribute to an open source project
- build specific expertise on one topic
- get more exposure, share knowledge through talks and blog
- ...
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Threats
- changed role or job
- boring / stressful / annoying
- annoying co-workers / toxic workplace
- lower pay / long commute
- having to use Windows
- more exposure leading to personal attacks
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My Observations
- my SWOT felt misaligned with the current career (coding vs. people management)
- Threats already applied to the current situation
Change was apparently needed + low risk.
Step 2:
Personal Achievements
- things that brought you joy / you are proud of
- provides specific evidence of your strengths
- helps to gain confidence and think positively
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My Achievements
- finished college, wrote a cool master's thesis
- became a team leader
- self-hosting my services via VPS
- extracted ERP legacy tax functionality via a strategy pattern
- learned to type using the Workman layout
- ...
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My Observations
- Nice! I did some cool things!
- Very little of it was connected to people management
Step 3:
Analyzing motivating activities
Find what drives you to strengthen your vision.
Categories of activities:
- bringing personal growth
- creating legacy
- building relationships
- with deeper meaning
Look for synergies and groups.
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My Activities
- writing readable code, testing, refactoring
- exploring new technologies and approaches
- contributing to open source projects
- learning through books and conferences
- knowledge sharing through blog, mentoring, talks
- working with colleagues - reviews, discussions
- research of innovative solutions
- solving problems, making software more useful ...
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My Activities Grouped
- collaborative software development (direct)
- exchange of experience (learning & teaching)
- research, experiments, investigation
Step 4:
Beta-Vision
Finding a personal vision takes effort and time.
Finding a beta version is easier
therefore you won't procrastinate to start!
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My Beta-Vision
- coding useful software on a daily basis
- publicly, open source
- Kotlin, TypeScript
- learning from others and sharing my knowledge
- collaboration, discussions
- blogging, talks, mentoring
- research and innovation
- specialize in one area
- experiments
Step 5:
Final Personal Vision
A few paragraphs of what you want to be doing.
---Act Now!
Starting small is fine, as long as you start!
How can you incorporate your vision in your daily life?
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My First Steps
- Coding refresher:
- Kotlin Koans
- Go by Example
- Learn Go with Tests
- Personal React project
- Fixing defects in the Android apps that I use (in Kotlin).
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My Findings
- starting small & early was great:
- for "prototyping" the vision
- (e.g.: Go is not so great)
- to experiment stress-free
- to avoid overthinking it
- to figure out if I need to scale it out
- for "prototyping" the vision
- I regularly experienced flow, improved my mood, raised my skills and really enjoyed doing it.
- having a vision for your life is useless without taking action