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Motivation


Why do we do the things we do?


External motivation

Carrot and stick; someone else sets our path.

  • numbs our self-motivation
  • feels meaningless
  • makes it easier to procrastinate

Internal motivation

We have our own target and we follow it.

  • progress feels more rewarding
  • brings good mood
  • engages creativity and learning

Goal-based motivation

We want to achieve something in the future.

  • Pros: it works!
  • Cons: it causes us damage; not sustainable
  • long struggle, followed by a short rush of joy that quickly evaporates
  • requires more and more demanding goals

Hedonic treadmill 🔗

Humans quickly return to a relatively stable level of happiness despite major positive or negative events.

The reward for finishing a major goal is not worth a long struggle to get there.


Arousal addiction

(not about sexual arousal)

Addiction to new, stronger stimuli

created by setting bigger and bigger goals.


Journey-based motivation

Enjoy the ride, the destination is secondary.

  • happiness now, not just at the end
  • unlocks flow
  • flow brings contentment and mastery
  • ...which in turn brings results

Meaning

Your actions may have positive impact on others,

adding strong foundations for a lasting motivation.


Group vision

Cooperation of individual visions

helps the growth of our own potential

and boosts the entire group.

The whole is greater than the sum of its parts.


TOOL: Personal Vision


How to get one?

  1. SWOT analysis
  2. Achievements
  3. Motivating activities
  4. Beta-Vision
  5. Final Personal Vision

SWOT

  • S - Strengths
  • W - Weaknesses
  • O - Opportunities
  • T - Threats

-V-

Time to reflect on yourself!

-V-

Strengths

  • skills, traits and qualities you have
  • using them supports flow
  • personal vision makes use of these as much as possible

-V-

Weaknesses

  • qualities you lack; limitations and negative traits
  • using them retards flow
  • personal vision avoids them if possible

These can be improved, but don't devote too much time to it.

-V-

Opportunities

  • possibilities today's world offers to us
  • using them supports flow
  • personal vision builds on them

Only a few will be used. The rest needs to be rejected and banished

to gain focus, clarity and mastery

to avoid decision paralysis or regrets.

-V-

Threats

  • risks, possible negative impacts or scenarios
  • take them into account
  • recognize them and be prepared
  • awareness helps with facing a potential fear

My SWOT

-V-

Strengths

  • attention to detail, carefulness, looking for perfection
  • enjoy exploring and learning new technologies
  • like to solve problems and mysteries in tech
  • life-long programming experience

-V-

Weaknesses

  • lacking in open confrontation, group arguments
  • introverted, social interactions are taxing
  • cautious in opinions, not an 'influencer'

-V-

Opportunities

-V-

Threats


Personal Achievements

  • pride, joy
  • evidence of strengths

My Achievements

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Motivating Activities

Personal vision should consist of these.

Categories:

  • bringing growth
  • creating legacy
  • building relationships
  • carry meaning

Activity should ideally fit into multiple categories!


My Activities

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Beta-Vision

Finding a personal vision takes effort.

Finding a beta version is easier

...and you won't procrastinate finding it!


Answer these...

  1. Favorite quote, idea that resonates?
  2. Life values?
  3. Fulfilling activities?
  4. Meaningful activities?

My Beta-Vision

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Final Personal Vision


My Final Vision

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Act Now!

How can you incorporate your vision in your daily life?

Starting small is fine, as long as you start!


My Start

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