Next trimming iteration: motivation, discipline, objectivity, outcomes.

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@ -58,6 +58,20 @@ e.g. by setting bigger and bigger goals. <!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
## Discipline ## Discipline
---
#### Baby Elephant Syndrome <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
<!-- .slide: data-background="slides/baby_elephant.jpg" data-background-opacity="0.8" data-background-size="contain" -->
-V-
<!-- .slide: data-background="slides/baby_elephant.jpg" data-background-opacity="0.3" data-background-size="contain" -->
Young elephant gets tied to a tree by a thin rope which it can't break.
As an adult, it is constrained by the same thin rope and it doesn't break free.<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
Because it learned it is no use to even try.<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
--- ---
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" data-background="slides/daily_heroism.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.5" --> <!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" data-background="slides/daily_heroism.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.5" -->
### TOOL: Daily Heroism <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" --> ### TOOL: Daily Heroism <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->

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@ -43,6 +43,7 @@ If the elephant gets scared,<br />it will not obey the rider.
-V- -V-
### Ego depletion ### Ego depletion
#### Rider is tired
- making decisions (big or small) is tiring - making decisions (big or small) is tiring
- we have limited operational capacity - we have limited operational capacity
@ -55,6 +56,7 @@ If the elephant gets scared,<br />it will not obey the rider.
-V- -V-
### Emotional aversion ### Emotional aversion
#### Elephant is scared
- some activities appear daunting right away: - some activities appear daunting right away:
- demanding lots of effort - demanding lots of effort
@ -65,7 +67,7 @@ If the elephant gets scared,<br />it will not obey the rider.
-V- -V-
#### Growing the capacity ### Growing the capacity
It is possible to increase our operational capacity It is possible to increase our operational capacity
- by building positive habits - by building positive habits
@ -84,7 +86,7 @@ without the rider being thrown off into a ditch.
### My thoughts ### My thoughts
- useful mental model - useful mental model
- explains why my rationality doesn't always win<br> - explains why my rationality doesn't always win<br>and that it is normal
- enables to account for it and work with it - enables to account for it and work with it
--- ---
@ -101,7 +103,7 @@ and track them daily.
#### Why? #### Why?
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" --> <!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" -->
- helps keeping our elephant in line:<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> - keeping our elephant in line:<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
- easier on our operational capacity: less need for making decisions; it is already decided - easier on our operational capacity: less need for making decisions; it is already decided
- less forgetting or avoiding the activity - less forgetting or avoiding the activity
- practice makes perfect, repetition brings efficiency<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> - practice makes perfect, repetition brings efficiency<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
@ -135,7 +137,7 @@ and track them daily.
-V- -V-
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> <!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" -->
### My Tracking: #### My Tracking:
### Gym sessions ### Gym sessions
- A4 sheet per week, daily tracking<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> - A4 sheet per week, daily tracking<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
- table of exercises + time and effort<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> - table of exercises + time and effort<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->

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@ -81,8 +81,8 @@ The reward for finishing a major goal<br />is not worth a long struggle to get t
<!-- .slide: data-background-image="slides/journey_based_motivation.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.2" --> <!-- .slide: data-background-image="slides/journey_based_motivation.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.2" -->
Joy is found in doing an activity, not finishing it. Joy is found in doing an activity, not finishing it.
* We enjoy the activity itself. <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> * We enjoy the activity itself <!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
* Unlocks the state of flow * Unlocks the state of flow <!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
--- ---
@ -251,6 +251,8 @@ I spent way too much time fighting my social skills.<!-- .element: class="fragme
- get exposure through knowledge sharing (talks) - get exposure through knowledge sharing (talks)
- ... - ...
I'll never be ruthless entrepreneur, but that's ok. <!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
-V- -V-
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" --> <!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" -->
#### Threats #### Threats

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@ -46,17 +46,8 @@ overestimate their abilities.<!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
-V- -V-
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" --> <!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" -->
### My reality check ### My new hobby:
#### Monthly job interview<!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
- quick & slow research<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> - assess my skills and relevancy<!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
- quick: internet checks of current facts and opinions, both for and against<!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
- slow: reading of books<!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
- exchanging feedback with colleagues<!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
-V-
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#030" -->
##### New hobby:
#### Monthly interview<!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
- assess your skills and relevancy<!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
- learn what others are doing<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> - learn what others are doing<!-- .element: class="fragment " -->
- confirm your company is the best<!-- .element: class="fragment " --> - confirm my company is the best<!-- .element: class="fragment " -->

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-V- -V-
<!-- .slide: data-background="slides/outcomes.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.1" --> <!-- .slide: data-background="slides/outcomes.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.1" -->
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#033" --> <!-- .slide: data-background-color="#033" -->
Flow brings outcomes and they keep us going: They're great.
- emotional outcomes - it makes us happy How to keep them coming?
- material outcomes - fruits of our labour
--- ---
Flow brings outcomes:
- emotional - it makes us happy
- material - fruits of our labour
Outcomes are what we're after.
-V-
### But sometimes... ### But sometimes...
we get derailed by bad mood we get derailed by bad mood
@ -28,6 +36,8 @@ Negativity captures our attention
more than positivity. more than positivity.
<br>
Negativity and pessimism reinforce themselves.<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> Negativity and pessimism reinforce themselves.<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
-V- -V-
@ -51,27 +61,12 @@ We need **emotional stability** to keep on going.
- when put in a box with a lid, it will try to jump out - when put in a box with a lid, it will try to jump out
- and after a day or two it will give up and never try again<!-- .element: class="fragment" --> - and after a day or two it will give up and never try again<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
- even once the lid is removed <!-- .element: class="fragment" --> - ...even once the lid is removed <!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
-V- -V-
<!-- .slide: data-background="slides/hamster_in_box.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.6" --> <!-- .slide: data-background="slides/hamster_in_box.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.6" -->
-V- <!-- .slide: data-background="slides/hamster_in_box.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.4" -->
#### Baby Elephant Syndrome <!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
<!-- .slide: data-background="slides/baby_elephant.jpg" data-background-opacity="0.8" data-background-size="contain" -->
-V-
<!-- .slide: data-background="slides/baby_elephant.jpg" data-background-opacity="0.3" data-background-size="contain" -->
Young elephant gets tied to a tree by a thin rope which it can't break.
As an adult, it is constrained by the same thin rope and it doesn't break free.<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
Because it learned it is no use to even try.<!-- .element: class="fragment" -->
-V-
<!-- .slide: data-background="slides/baby_elephant.jpg" data-background-opacity="0.1" data-background-size="contain" -->
#### Learned helplessness<!-- .element: class="text-over-image" --> #### Learned helplessness<!-- .element: class="text-over-image" -->
[Martin Seligman] <!-- .element: class="reference-author" --> [Martin Seligman] <!-- .element: class="reference-author" -->
@ -159,9 +154,6 @@ Personal Vision <!-- .element: class="fragment fade-right" -->
Choice of attitude <!-- .element: class="fragment fade-left" --> Choice of attitude <!-- .element: class="fragment fade-left" -->
-V-
--- ---
<!-- .slide: data-background="slides/choice_of_attitude.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.3" --> <!-- .slide: data-background="slides/choice_of_attitude.jpg" data-background-size="contain" data-background-opacity="0.3" -->
<!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" --> <!-- .slide: data-background-color="#542" -->
@ -184,10 +176,6 @@ Interpreting seemingly *negative events*
as **neutral** or even **positive**. as **neutral** or even **positive**.
-V-
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Event → 😟/😐/😀
<div class="flex-container"> <div class="flex-container">
<div style="width: 50%" class="fragment"> <div style="width: 50%" class="fragment">